US parents win battle to evict son, 30

US parents win battle to evict son, 30

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Michael Rotondo, 30, appeared in court on Tuesday

A New York couple have won their legal battle to evict their 30-year-old son from home after he refused to leave.

During a hearing at the state’s highest court in Syracuse, a judge praised Michael Rotondo’s legal research, but ordered him to leave the house anyway.

Justice Donald Greenwood told the son his bid to remain in his parent’s home another six months was “outrageous”.

But Mr Rotondo, who legally represented himself, said it was the eviction notice that was outrageous.

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Christina and Mark Rotondo were in court

“I don’t see why they can’t just, you know, wait a little bit for me to leave the house,” Mr Rotondo argued, as his parents looked on, sitting with their lawyer.

Mr Rotondo argued that six months was “a reasonable amount of time for someone who has been depending on persons for support”.

The smiling judge urged him to speak to his parents, and to voluntarily leave the house, but Mr Rotondo refused.

In a court filing last week, Christina and Mark Rotondo described issuing several orders for their son to move out, starting on 2 February 2018.

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The home near Syracuse, New York that is at the centre of the family dispute

“There are jobs available even for those with a poor work history like you,” they wrote in one note, dated 18 February.

“Get one – you have to work!”

They also offered him $1,100 (£819) to leave.

After Tuesday’s hearing, Mr Rotondo summoned news cameras into a hallway for an impromptu press conference.

He told reporters he would appeal against the ruling, and that he had planned to move out within three months anyway.

He added that he has a job, but refused to answer questions about it, telling reporters that “my business is my business”.

Mr Rotondo also complained the judge had not properly read his case.

He left court, presumably heading back to his parents’ home.

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Battle over author Colleen McCullough’s estate hears there was another will

Battle over author Colleen McCullough’s estate hears there was another will

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May 22, 2018 14:47:55

A new document has emerged suggesting Australian author Colleen McCullough wrote a fresh will leaving her estate to her husband, the New South Wales Supreme Court has heard.

The internationally acclaimed author of The Thorn Birds and a series of novels about the Roman Empire died in hospital on Norfolk Island in January 2015, aged 77.

The Supreme Court was today due to begin a seven-day hearing about who inherits her estate.

The late author’s agent Selwa Anthony and her widower Ric Robinson had been in dispute over whether a document from July 2014, or a document from January 2015, constituted the author’s will.

The first will left Dr McCullough’s estate to a university in Oklahoma in the United States and the second leaves it to Mr Robinson.

In documents filed to the court last year, Ms Anthony alleged that Mr Robinson “unduly influenced” Dr McCullough to write the January 2015 document under “suspicious circumstances” and that the author “did not know and approve contents”.

The Supreme Court was due to begin hearing the case today, but a new document emerged, which also appears to support the claim that Mr Robinson is the beneficiary.

The plaintiff’s barrister Kim Morrissey SC said the plaintiff’s team had been given the document in February 2015 but had overlooked it.

He asked for a day to find out more, prepare a reply and possibly amend the statement of claim.

But defence barrister David Murr SC opposed the request, saying the plaintiff’s legal team had had plenty of time and accused them of “sitting on” the document for three years.

The judge ordered Ms Anthony’s legal team to provide a proposed amended statement of claim to the defence by 5:00pm this afternoon.

The court hearing, which is now set to begin tomorrow, is due to hear from handwriting experts about whether certain initials on documents were done in McCullough’s usual style, and whether she was even capable of lifting a pen in such a way.

The author suffered crippling arthritis and had gone blind in the years before her death.

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‘A Lose-Lose Battle’: NBA Stars on Tunnel Trash Talk and Why It Makes Them Snap

‘A Lose-Lose Battle’: NBA Stars on Tunnel Trash Talk and Why It Makes Them Snap

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Put yourself in the shoes of an NBA player. Yes, I realize they don’t fit. You wear a size 11, and Kevin Durant wears a size they do not carry in your local JCPenney. Go with me anyway. You’re very wealthy. You’re athletically gifted to an extreme degree. You’re pretty much guaranteed a good table at the best restaurants in whatever city you live in.            

But there are downsides. Here’s one particularly unpleasant one: People will yell horrible things at you often, and you’re supposed to just take it.

There’s nothing that quite compares to the feeling of having someone’s hot, drunken breath on you, insisting that you are, in fact, the worst. Or that your mother is the worst. Or your wife. Or your kids.

This is one of the reasons you and your teammates fight and claw for every win during the regular season—for home-court advantage in the playoffs. It’s a lot easier to focus on the task at hand when people aren’t insulting you. Home arenas are as close to a safe space as you can get as an NBA player.

It’s why after winning Game 2 against the Warriors in Houston, Rockets guard Chris Paul‘s first shoutout was to the crowd. “Our fans were amazing tonight, and we’re going to continue to need them,” he said.

He knew to appreciate it while he could, because one of the league’s most notoriously rowdy crowds would make him feel anything but appreciative in Oakland on Sunday. It’s hard to hear yourself think in Oracle Arena, let alone sink a crucial free throw. “We know [it’s] a tough environment to play in there,” Paul continued. “We’ll be ready.”

“Be ready,” meaning “grow thick skin” and “increase our selective hearing.” But sometimes even that isn’t enough, especially when emotions are at their highest and a stranger is getting personal with you.

Sometimes you, even as an NBA player, just snap. Look at Russell Westbrook. Three times this season, at least, he’s been involved in instances of fan abuse.

In February in Denver, a fan came on the court after the Nuggets won on a Gary Harris buzzer-beater and screamed in Westbrook’s face. During the first round of the playoffs in Utah, a fan yelled an obscenity at him on his way through the tunnel at halftime of Game 6. Then again after that same game. The last time, Westbrook boiled over and went for a fan’s cellphone.

And who can blame him?

Some guys get it more than others. Draymond Green is public enemy No. 1 whenever the Warriors are on the road. He’s the toughest guy with the biggest mouth on the best team in the league. He’s outspoken, he’s brash and he makes his presence felt on the court. The target on his back is substantial.

Fans in rival cities are already predisposed to hate him. Most of the time, it just means a cacophony of nameless, faceless hollering, mixed in with the arena’s thumping pump-up music and wacky sound effects. But when something happens like what occurred in Game 1 of the Western Conference Finals this year, when Green brushed off James Harden with a forearm shove after a Harden layup, the crowd is ready to tear him apart.

The jeers and the insults rained down on Green after that early-game incident. Then the Warriors had to go back through that tunnel at the end of the first half, with the game a fierce back-and-forth deadlock, giving fans some not-so-quality time with their enemies.

“As far as [being] tied up 56-56 walking into the tunnel, there isn’t much somebody can really say,” Draymond said of the moment. “I don’t really pay much attention to what people are yelling from the crowd anyway. I can get in trouble and lose money; they can’t. So it’s a lose-lose battle for me.”

That’s why you listen to veterans like Paul’s teammate, Gerald Green, when they say of interactions with fans: “It’s tough. It’s the league. You gotta be professional.” Green has been in the league since 2005 and has played a large portion of his career in front of one of the league’s most intense fanbases in Boston. He understands the grind of being on the road and what that means for a player’s psyche. The instinct is to react, but the necessity is to disengage.

If you don’t, you pay. Like Rodney Hood did, fined $35,000 for slapping a phone away from a fan as he exited the court in January.

You understand the league’s reasoning. Proximity to the action is part of the appeal of the NBA experience, and the price of a ticket does afford fans a certain amount of leeway to express themselves.

Wealthy people pay top dollar for courtside seats. Part of what fans seated above the tunnel entrances are paying for is the chance to high-five the home players, get autographs, yell words of encouragement—and berate and harass visiting players. They can take candid photos of the players any time they want.

But again, like Hood or Westbrook, sometimes you snap.

Westbrook wasn’t fined for shoving the Nuggets fan away or telling the Jazz fan to “back the f–k up” when he went into the tunnel for halftime. The key difference is, as Westbrook said after the Game 6 incident in Utah, he did not confront the fans. The fans confronted him.

“Here in Utah, man, a lot of disrespectful, vulgar things are said to the players here with these fans,” Westbrook said. “It’s truly disrespectful—about your families, your kids. It’s truly disrespectful to the game, man. I think it’s something that needs to be brought up.

“I’m tired of just going out and playing; then the fans saying whatever the hell they want to say. I’m not with that. If I was on the street, they wouldn’t just come up to me and say anything crazy, because I don’t play that s–t. So, to disrespect me and do whatever they want to do needs to be put to a stop, especially here in Utah.”

In pressure-filled situations—with your legacy, your livelihood and your reputation on the line at all times—it can push you past your limit.

Security does the best it can to regulate hateful speech in the arena and to keep fans from abusing the players. That’s not always successful, though, and issues do arise.

Sports can be cathartic, from two opposite perspectives—one, the joy of seeing your team win; and two, the sometimes perverse pleasure of getting your anger out when it isn’t going quite as well as you’d hoped. As much as fans are paying to enjoy the spectacle and the stunning athletic feats of major professional sports, they are also paying to feel free to be emotional—to get mad, to be happy, to lose themselves for just a moment. Knowing that, much of the responsibility for keeping it together falls on the players.

The question is how a player can remain calm when he’s heard one jab too many.

Listen to Gerald Green: “At the end of the day, we are human. At the end of the day, they’re having fun with it, too. So, when it’s all fun and games, and it’s all within the sport, it’s cool. It gets a little complicated when both parties get disrespectful, the player or the fan. It’s not right to be disrespected. Once you keep it clean, keep it sportsmanlike, and just keep it on the game, a little trash talking is always good.”

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Or to Draymond: “I think there are times in a ton of games where you just have to reel it back in, whether good or bad. You could be playing too good and get overhyped. You could be playing horrible and get down on yourself. I think that’s all part of being a pro. It makes a difference having great teammates who always support you, having a great coaching staff who is always supporting. That makes a difference.”

And that’s the lesson.

Of all the skills an NBA player is required to have—and of all the ones to learn from Draymond Green—the most underrated of all might be patience.

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